Thursday, May 28, 2015

Anne of Green Gables




I just love this series.As a kid, I had read only the first 2 books and now bought the whole series and
read them. This book is not only for the girls,every guy should also read it.

You feel you are actually living Anne's life right from her adoption to her marriage and kids.You actually can feel what Anne feels-The lovely red-haired Anne(with an e!) and her imagination!

I will write nothing more here,you can learn all about life.

“It's been my experience that you can nearly always enjoy things if you make up your mind firmly that you will.”

“Because when you are imagining, you might as well imagine something worth while.” 

“...Isn't it splendid to think of all the things there are to find out about? It just makes me feel glad to be alive--it's such an interesting world. It wouldn't be half so interesting if we knew all about everything, would it? There'd be no scope for imagination then, would there?”







The Perks of being a wallflower



This book was on my to-read list from a long time and never got the book in the library.
Now that I am in U.S. and there is an awesome library close by,you just have to tell the book you need and they hold it for you for 10 days (if not in their library ,they get it from the group of libraries close by)and can go and pick it up! It is a free public library with an awesome collection!
Well, about the book now.

The book is written in the format of letters by a teenage boy addressing some stranger (but when you read it,it is like addressing you).He writes down his thoughts about everything that goes on his life,his experience in school, what he feels about his parents,sister, about love,friendship etc:
I really love the thoughts that go through this kid's head Charlie,and how he puts them down.It is a must definite read,will not write much about it,will just list my favorite Charlie's thoughts.
Some are thoughts which even I have thought about but he puts it down really well!

Some of my favorite ones:

1) He reads a lot of books given by his English teacher (specially given to him)  and asked to write a report.

His comment on one of the books read-Fountainhead:
“It's strange to describe reading a book as a really great experience, but that's kind of how it felt.” 
I felt the same about Fountainhead and this book too!

“I would die for you. But I won't live for you." He reads this line in Fountainhead book and his thought:
 I think the idea is that every person has to live for his or her own life and then make the choice to share it with other people. Maybe that is what makes people "participate.”

“It's strange because sometimes, I read a book, and I think I am the people in the book.” 
Yes,I did this too and I was Nancy Drew for a long time! and rarely do it now as I do not want to be the characters I read nowadays.(Later on that)

2)“So, I guess we are who we are for a lot of reasons. And maybe we'll never know most of them. But even if we don't have the power to choose where we come from, we can still choose where we go from there. We can still do things. And we can try to feel okay about them.” 


3)His thoughts on parenting style :-)
“I think that if I ever have kids, and they are upset, I won't tell them that people are starving in China or anything like that because it wouldn't change the fact that they were upset. And even if somebody else has it much worse, that doesn't really change the fact that you have what you have.” 

“I don't know if it's better to be close with your daughter or make sure that she has a better life than you do.”

4) On memories,He wonders about that his  Dad was a kid once just like him and found it funny!
“I was looking at the photographs and I started thinking that there was a time when these weren't memories.” 
“Old pictures look very rugged and young, and the people in the photographs always seem a lot happier than they are now.

5) When he is upset ,(Forgot,what it was about)

“I don't know if you've ever felt like that. That you wanted to sleep for thousands of years. Or just not exist..” 
 We all do ,especially on Monday mornings!:-)


6) He creates mixed tapes a lot to give as presents and his thoughts on how songs make us feel:

“And I thought about how many people have loved those songs. And how many people got through a lot of bad times because of those songs. And how many people enjoyed good times with those songs. And how much those songs really mean. I think it would be great to have written one of those songs. I bet if I wrote one of them, I would be very proud. I hope the people who wrote those songs are happy. I hope they feel it's enough. I really do because they've made me happy. And I'm only one person.” 


7)And finally :

“It's much easier to not know things sometimes. Things change and friends leave. And life doesn't stop for anybody. I wanted to laugh. Or maybe get mad. Or maybe shrug at how strange everybody was, especially me. I think the idea is that every person has to live for his or her own life and then make the choice to share it with other people. You can't just sit there and put everybody's lives ahead of yours and think that counts as love. You just can't. You have to do things. I'm going to do what I want to do. I'm going to be who I really am. And I'm going to figure out what that is. And we could all sit around and wonder and feel bad about each other and blame a lot of people for what they did or didn't do or what they didn't know. I don't know. I guess there could always be someone to blame. It's just different. Maybe it's good to put things in perspective, but sometimes, I think that the only perspective is to really be there. Because it's okay to feel things. I was really there. And that was enough to make me feel infinite. I feel infinite."

If you wondering about  the title,his friends call him a wallflower because
"You see things. You keep quiet about them. And you understand. You're a wallflower."
You have to read the book to know why his friend says so:-)







Saturday, April 24, 2010

Jonathan Livingston Seagull -Richard Bach


This is one of the books whose effect has remained with me from a long time.
Read it for the first time when in 8th std and then again in college and just again today.

This book is about:let me say what is written on the back cover matches it perfectly.

"People who make their own rules when they know they are right...people who get a special pleasure out of doing something well(even if only for themselves)..people who know there's more to this whole living thing than meets the eye."



The whole book written on the life of a seagull Jonathan Livingston about how he loved to fly and wanted to perfect his art,learn to fly from heights ,at low heights,dive at high speed and so on and how his flock mocked him that he was born as a seagull and that the reason he flies is to eat .If he were meant to fly like that,his body and wings will have been different.They outcast him from the flock and how his life goes from there.The messages are beautifully given through the story of the bird.

Messages given

Everything that limits us we have to put aside.

Break the chains of your thought and you break the chains of your body too.As one's body being nothing more than thought itself.

We are free to go where we wish and to be what we are.

Heaven is not a place,and it is not a time as they (time and place are meaningless).Heaven is being perfect and perfection doesn't have limits.



The best line from book



"We went from one world into another that was almost exactly like it,forgetting right away where we had come from,not caring where we were headed,living for the moment.Do you have any idea how many lives we have gone through before we even got the first idea that there is more to life than eating,or fighting for power?A ten thousand lives!And then another hundred lives until we began to learn that there is such a thing as perfection,and then another hundred again to get the idea that our purpose of living is to find that perfection and show it forth.

we choose our next world through what we learn in this one.Learn nothing,and the next world is the same as this one,all the same limitations to overcome."



One more really good one:

"Overcome space and all we have left is Here.Overcome time,and all we have left is Now."



Application to life



  • We complain about our limitations stopping us from achieving.This book sets an example that if a seagull can overcome his body limits to fly at such speeds,then what are the other physical limitations (money,time) that can stop us humans??

  • Why people are scared to do what they love and know it is right.Just because others will mock us??

  • The mundane,small things in life,we just do it to complete the job and not think if i could have done it in a more better,perfect way.

  • There will never be a perfect time or place to do what we want.It should always be here and now.












Sunday, April 18, 2010

Isn't It Obvious? Eliyahu Goldhart










This book is about retail business:textiles.

Got to learn a lot about how they operate,about how inventory,investment and sales relate to profit.

The ultimate line to take from this book

"I divide people into two camps.Those who measure themselves by how they do relative to some reference,and those who couldn't care less about what others have achieved.These individuals measure themselves according to the inherent potential of the situation they are in Everybody compares themselves to their competitors and as a result are satisfied with what they are achieving.And it is so difficult,impossible to open their eyes to the fact that there is so much more;that the solid potential that they had created,(have) can be used to dwarf whatever they had already achieved."



Application to life

You know if I apply this to daily life,whenever I get up late at weekends like around 9.00 and Arjun scolds or makes fun of me that I have wasted 3 hours of the day,I argue that "There are people who get up at 11,12 in the afternoon,I am so much better off".He says "It does not matter when other people get up,whether you wanted to get up or not is the question and whether you can or not.Never complain that you do not have time to do this or that again"Even when my parents point out something I just give reasons that my other friends are much worse in this,I atleast did only this.

So,now I resolved that I will join the second group of people and never compare myself to others whether it is for achievement or my faults.I have a sense of what is good,bad,my capabilities and dreams and will measure myself by targets I set for myself.



Other messages to be taken

The other message this book gives is--

The protagonist of the book has a hard time convincing the other people in his company that the ideas he has to improve profits will work,though he had results,figures to show them .

How people are scared to venture on new procedures,think,try new methods,implement their new ideas.They follow old,traditional methods with the reasoning that this is how the system works,this is what everyone follow ,and it works for everyone,so why I should I adapt to something else which I am not sure whether it will help or not.People are scared to change,any kind of change.

So I can say in a nutshell

"Inertia is not good,try new things,dare to change,bring the change and see what you can achieve"



Why is the title so?

The ideas of the protagonist were just based on simple rules which are so obvious that everyone are surprised that if it is so simple and obvious why business units never used them before.

Answers to any problem can be obtained by just attacking the root cause and solution will stare into our face and we shall say "It was so obvious"

Hence the title of the book "Isn't It Obvious".





Saturday, April 17, 2010

Thought a lot as to on which book shall be my post,the one I finished reading last or the one that has been with me,influenced me a lot among all the books I have read so far.
Could not decide,so will post both.

What is this blog about

I was always fascinated with books.And always wondered how will I finish the million books that exist.Every book I read,I get to learn so much regardless of the kind of genre of book-be it a mystery novel,classic literature books,sci-fi novel,romantic novel,self-help boo,management books...So much to learn about how life treats you,places across the world,people....what not.

So,each time I pick a book and am fascinated by it and what I learnt,I want to treasure it with me and cherish it forever.So a small step towards this is creating this blog.
And am very lucky that my soon to be better-half,life partner too is with me on this and feels the same about books encouraged me to take this step.


May-2015:
Well,I did not update the blog for a really long time but I did read a lot of books during the time.
I will not able to write down more details about the book but I remember the feeling I had when I think about the book .Just want some place to list the books I have  read  lost the dairy I was noting down the list of books ( while shifting).Thought for the books read in the past,I shall just list them atleast.